HeyTelli — private dating clarity, built for women

What HeyTelli is

A private memory for modern dating.

You already do this. You screenshot the chat. You send the profile to the group chat. You debrief the date in the car. You compare what felt right at first to what feels right now.

HeyTelli organizes that — quietly, on your phone, just for you. The smartest, calmest friend in your group chat: the one who remembers everything.

How it works

Three quiet steps.

1

Share a screenshot.

Open Photos. Share a profile or chat to HeyTelli — no logins inside the dating app, nothing to set up.

2

It becomes a private read.

HeyTelli reads the details, threads the conversation, and surfaces the patterns you'd notice yourself if you had the time.

3

Reflect, prep, decide.

A calm timeline of who said what when. Gentle prep before a date. A chat assistant when you want to think out loud. Every decision stays yours.

What HeyTelli isn't

Some things this is not.

We're careful about what HeyTelli is not.

Not a rate-men board. We will never host a public review of anyone.
Not a danger detector. We don't label people "safe" or "unsafe."
Not a friend dossier or gossip network. There is no shared profile of anyone in here.
Not surveillance. HeyTelli only knows what you put in, and only ever shows it to you.

HeyTelli helps you understand your own situation. It never makes claims about someone else.

Privacy, in plain words

What "private" actually means here.

Raw screenshots are temporary.

Screenshots are used to build your read, then purged when the app no longer needs the raw image.

Date Cards share only what helps you stay safe.

First name, time, location, transport, check-in, expected end, an optional code word, and your own note — no photos, no conversations.

Your circle stays local.

Trusted contacts live on your phone, not in our database. We only read your contacts when you choose to add one.

Delete a match, delete the history.

Removing a connection removes its chat, screenshots, notes, timeline, and saved safety data — fully, not just hidden.

Join the beta

Get on the list.

Beta access rolls out via TestFlight on iPhone. Add your email and we'll send your invite when your spot opens.

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